
Parents & Caregivers
Join Tommy on an adventure to help your child discover, understand, and express their emotions in healthy ways
"Every emotion is valid. Together, we'll help your child learn that feelings are friends, not foes!"
— Tommy the Turtle
Understanding Your Child's Emotional Development
Every child develops at their own pace. Here's what to expect and how Tommy can help.
Emotional Milestones by Age
3-4 years
Key developmental stage
"At 3-4 years, your child is learning so much! Be patient and celebrate every small victory!"
Common Emotional Challenges & How Tommy Helps
Big Emotions, Small Bodies
Children feel emotions just as intensely as adults but lack the tools to manage them.
Tommy's Solution:
Tommy helps by giving emotions fun names and showing that all feelings are okay!
Difficulty Expressing Feelings
Young children often act out because they can't verbalize what they're feeling.
Tommy's Solution:
Tommy teaches feeling words through stories and games, making it easier to communicate.
Fear and Anxiety
Childhood fears are normal but can be overwhelming without proper support.
Tommy's Solution:
Tommy's Fear-Fighting Toolkit provides concrete strategies kids can use independently.
Social Emotional Learning
Learning to navigate friendships and social situations is complex for young minds.
Tommy's Solution:
Tommy's social stories help children understand different perspectives and reactions.

Tommy's Message to Parents
"You're doing an amazing job! Every parent faces challenges, and that's okay. I'm here to help your little one understand their feelings, one adventure at a time. Together, we'll build emotional intelligence that lasts a lifetime!"
Practical Parenting Strategies
Evidence-based techniques that work with Tommy's approach
Core Emotional Parenting Strategies
Quick Tips for Common Situations
During a Meltdown
- 1Stay calm yourself
- 2Get down to their eye level
- 3Use few words
- 4Offer comfort, not solutions

Tommy's Parent Reminder
"Every feeling is a teaching moment! When your child has big emotions, that's your chance to show them they're safe and loved. Remember, you're doing an amazing job!"
Parent Resource Center
Tools, guides, and support to help you on your parenting journey
Downloadable Guides
Quick Tips & Strategies
- Tip
The 3-2-1 Calm Down Method
Simple technique for intense emotions
- Guide
Emotion Coaching in 5 Steps
Turn meltdowns into learning moments
- Routine
Bedtime Feelings Check
End each day with emotional connection
Activity Ideas
- Activity
Feeling Faces Art Project
Creative expression through emotions
- Game
Emotion Detective Game
Practice identifying feelings in others
- Activity
Family Gratitude Circle
Build positive emotions together
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